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Stop Letting Meetings Hijack your Day

  • Writer: Brian Davidson, PMP, CSM
    Brian Davidson, PMP, CSM
  • Jun 1, 2024
  • 3 min read

Updated: Oct 17, 2024

Time is your most valuable asset, and once it’s spent, you can’t get it back. Yet, many of us allow meetings to consume our schedules without asking if they’re truly necessary. You glance at your calendar on Monday morning, only to find your week already filled with back-to-back meetings. The time you thought you had for meaningful work vanishes, replaced by hours spent in discussions with unclear outcomes.

It’s time to rethink how we value and protect our time.


Your Time is Precious—Guard It Fiercely


We often hear “time is money,” but more importantly, time is potential. How you spend it today shapes what you’ll achieve tomorrow. Yet, many professionals treat time as if it’s limitless, accepting meeting invites out of obligation or habit. The result? You lose control over your day.


Start viewing your time as your most valuable resource. Like a savvy investor, you need to ensure you’re getting the maximum return. The first principle of effective meetings is about reclaiming that time by critically assessing whether a meeting is the best use of it. Sometimes, the best meeting is the one you don’t attend.


The Meeting Trap: How Time Slips Away


We’ve all been there—receiving a meeting invite that seems important, so we accept without much thought. Before long, your calendar is full, and you have little time for deep, productive work. The reality? Many of these meetings aren’t necessary, or they don’t require you to be there. Yet, we attend, afraid of missing out or feeling obligated.

Every time you sit in a meeting without a clear purpose, you’re spending time that could be better used to:


  • Advance a key project.

  • Focus on your goals.

  • Mentor your team.

  • Grow your own skills.


If you treat your time as finite, you’ll see the importance of controlling how it’s spent. Every unnecessary meeting steals time from your most impactful work.


The Art of Protecting Your Time


Not every meeting belongs on your calendar. You have the right—and responsibility—to decide if a meeting is worth your time. It’s not about avoiding meetings altogether, but being selective and making sure each meeting has a purpose.

Use this quick framework:


  • Is my presence essential? Will I directly influence the outcome, or could I spend my time better elsewhere?

  • Can this be handled more efficiently? Could the issue be resolved by email, a shared document, or a quick call?

  • What’s the expected outcome? If there’s no clear objective, the meeting likely isn’t worth attending.

  • Who else is attending? Trust your team to handle meetings that don’t need your direct input.


By asking these questions, you can eliminate unnecessary meetings and regain control of your time.


Your Time, Your Priorities

When you intentionally manage your time, you regain control of your day. Instead of reacting to meetings, you can focus your energy on what truly matters. Here’s how that looks in practice:


  • Fewer Meetings, More Impactful Work: Reducing meetings opens up uninterrupted time for high-quality, focused work.

  • Clearer Focus: Limited time forces you to prioritize what drives the most results, aligning your actions with your goals.

  • Better Decisions: With more control, you can make thoughtful, strategic decisions without being rushed or distracted.

  • Less Burnout, More Balance: By freeing yourself from constant meetings, you create space for creativity, learning, and personal balance.


Taking Control = Taking Back Results


When you take control of your time, you’ll see a direct improvement in productivity. Cutting unnecessary meetings lets you focus on results—whether it’s driving projects forward or growing your skills as a leader. Protecting your time means producing more value, which benefits both you and your organization.


Reclaiming your time isn’t just about efficiency—it’s about owning your day, week, and career. Be intentional about how you spend it, and you’ll shape your own success.


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